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5 Questions Men Must Ask Before The First Date!

🚨 Men — it’s cuffing season, and here’s the truth: Too many so-called 50/50 relationships end up 100/0 because men never take the lead from the beginning. In this episode, I break down the Top 5 Questions Men Should Ask Women BEFORE going on a first date — the questions that reveal if she has depth, values, and vision beyond just surface-level conversation. From asking about her proudest accomplishment, to who her mentor is, to what book she last read — these questions will show you if she’s ready for a real relationship, or if she’s just for the streets. 👉 Fellas, if you’re tired of wasting time, watch this before you step into cuffing season. And ladies, let’s see how you’d answer these questions in the comments 👇
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Top 5 Things Women Never Do To Keep Men Happy!

Ladies, let’s keep it real… most women think they know what keeps a man happy — but the truth is very different. In this video, I break down the 5 things women never do that men secretly want: from really listening, to protecting your relationship from family interference, to why men NEED 2 hours of peace every day. Plus, I’ll drop a bonus truth that’ll change how you look at relationships forever. 👉 If you want unfiltered relationship advice that men won’t say out loud, this is it. Watch until the end, subscribe for more raw conversations, and tell me in the comments — do you agree or disagree?
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Shrekking Explained: The Viral Dating Trend Ruining Relationships

The viral dating trend “Shrekking” is blowing up online, and it has people questioning modern love. According to the New York Post, Shrekking is all about “dating down” — choosing a less-attractive partner in hopes of finding stability, loyalty, or avoiding competition in relationships. But experts warn that it could backfire, leading to resentment, insecurity, or settling for the wrong reasons. In this podcast episode, we break down what Shrekking really means, why it’s trending in 2025, and whether “dating down” is smart or a disaster waiting to happen. We’ll also share personal takes, cultural commentary, and stories that will have you laughing while thinking twice about your own dating choices. If you’ve ever been tempted to “Shrek” or wonder if it’s happening in your circle, this conversation is for you. Watch until the end for the funniest takes — and don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more unfiltered relationship discussions.
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Modern Day Relationships Suck & No One Wants To Admit It

Modern dating is a mess — and nobody wants to say the quiet part out loud. In this video, we break down the real reasons why dating in 2025 feels more toxic, more confusing, and more exhausting than ever before. From dating apps to ghosting to unrealistic expectations, we’re pulling no punches. Leave a comment below — do you agree, or do you think dating just evolved?
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From Arguments to Aww! Ai Helped Us Communicate Better

💬 AI might not take out the trash… but it can help you take out the drama. In this episode of Smoke Somethin Drink Somethin Podcast, we’re breaking down 10 powerful AI prompts that can instantly improve your relationship—help you communicate better, plan unforgettable dates, keep the spark alive, and turn “we need to talk” into “I’m glad we talked.” Whether you’re looking to spice things up, fix a communication breakdown, or just keep the romance fresh, these ChatGPT prompts are your secret weapon.
Couples, take notes—this is your new relationship toolkit.
📌 What You’ll Learn in This Video: How to use AI for better communication in relationships 10 romantic & fun ChatGPT prompts for couples Creative date ideas planned with AI AI tips for conflict resolution without the drama Ways to match your partner’s love language with AI suggestions
💡 Pro Tip: Try one of these prompts today and let me know in the comments how it went—your story might make it into the next episode! #RelationshipAdvice #CouplesTips #AIForRelationships #ChatGPTPrompts #LoveAndRelationships #CouplesGoals #DatingTips #RelationshipGoals #PodcastClips #RelationshipAdviceForMen #RelationshipAdviceForWomen
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Hey Alexa...We Don’t Need AI… Or Do We? Part 2 of the Relationship Debate

🤖 Is AI a threat to love or a tool to make it stronger? In Part 2 of our deep dive, we explore how artificial intelligence is changing the game in long-term relationships — from emotional support bots to relationship coaching apps. Are established couples safer without it… or falling behind by ignoring it?
In this episode, we break down: ✅ Real-life examples of AI being used in marriages and partnerships ✅ The emotional risks of AI companionship ✅ How couples are secretly using AI for communication, conflict resolution, and even intimacy ✅ The debate: Can AI replace real connection, or does it enhance it?
🎯 If you’ve ever wondered whether AI belongs in your relationship — or if your partner might be getting advice from ChatGPT instead of you — this is the conversation you can’t miss.
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Alexa, Why Am I Still Single? 😂 Is Ai Ruining Real Relationships?

🤖💔 Alexa, Why Am I Still Single?!
In this hilarious and brutally honest episode of the Smoke Somethin Drink Somethin Podcast, we dive deep into the wild world of modern love and ask the realest question of 2025: Is AI ruining real relationships… or are we just losing the game to chatbots? 😂
🔥 From ChatGPT writing love letters to people falling in love with their virtual girlfriend, we’re unpacking: Why AI got more game than your last situationship 😭 How dating apps, deepfakes & emotional bots are changing the rules Whether real connection still matters—or if we’re all just swiping for simulation The dangers of outsourcing your “I miss you” texts to Siri 🤣
🎯 If you’ve ever been ghosted, simped for a bot, or wondered why love feels different now—this one’s for you. 💬 Sound off in the comments:
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The Top 3 Things Relationships Can Learn From The New Carnival Cruise Lines Rules

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Did Bethenny Frankel Just Ruin Dating For Everyone?

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Is The Jeff Bezos & Lauren Sanchez Bad For Future Relationships?

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